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Hypnosis & Will Survey–My Responses

Hypnosis & Will–My Responses

In my recent post, Hypnosis & Will: Have You Changed Your Mind?, I looked at how two videos changed the beliefs of the majority of people watching. they went from the idea that you can’t hypnotize someone against their will, to the idea that you can!

Here are some of their comments and my responses…

“Against Their Will” vs. “Without Their Knowledge”

Can a person be hypnotized against their will?
No
Comment: No, but we can hypnotize someone secretly without getting caught using covert hypnotic techniques.

2. Can a person be made to do something against their will in hypnosis?
No
Comment: No, but we can make them do something they would not normally do by utilizing covert hypnosis.

3. What is shown in the videos is not hypnosis!
Disagree
Comment: I’ve study mentalism for many years and I enjoy watching Derren Brown’s performance. Although some of Derren’s routine are performed by magic techniques, I notice that the Russian Scam one was performed by some covert hypnotic techniques like the mirroring technique, the handshake induction, the hypnotic gaze induction, etc. Therefore, I believe that the Russian Scam routine IS hypnosis.

My Response:

What is the distinction to be made between hypnotizing someone against their will and doing it without their knowledge? And is there a distinction between “against their will” and “something they wouldn’t normally do?” I think there is.

Many people made the point that it’s different to get someone to do something they hadn’t planned to do vs. something they would object to doing. I don’t plan to go to the store today and buy an apple. But I don’t object to it in any meaningful way. If you were trying to get me to buy an apple, it would be much easier than trying to get me to rob a bank (something I would object to on several grounds).

But what about the Russian Scam video? If we accept it on face value, does it meet the criteria for making someone do something against their will? I think most people would agree that handing a complete stranger their wallet would be something they would not typically choose to do.

If you do not think that qualifies as “against someone’s will,” I’d like to know what you think would be. Drop me a note and let me know what, for you, would be absolute proof that hypnosis could make someone do something against their will. Make the subject line “Against Their Will.”

Drop me a line…

Nominalizations And Motivations

1. Can a person be hypnotized against their will?
No
Comment: The techniques used are confusion techniques and it really has less to do with “will” and more to do with knowledge. To say the subjects were hypnotized or did something against their will infers that they knew what was going to happen, the didn’t want to have it happen, and they were made to do it anyway. That is not the case in either of the videos.

2. Can a person be made to do something against their will in hypnosis?
No
Comment: Yes and No. Again, we must define “will.” Both videos showed people being made to do things that we believe they didn’t “want” to do, but it is not that simple. I do believe you can get someone to do something without their knowledge (the whole point of conversational or covert), but to say it has to do with “will” is not fully accurate. The guy who gave away his belongings was totally confused, and in that instant we believe that he would not have wanted to give them away as he did, but Derren is one of the best at using confusion techniques and NLP (after all, he got the guy to do it twice!). I would still argue that it wasn’t about will, it was about knowledge.

3. What is shown in the videos is not hypnosis!

Disagree
Comment: If Hypnosis is a highly suggestible state (more suggestible than in a normal, conscious state), then what we saw was hypnosis.

My Response:

Yes, we must define the word “will.” That’s spot on. I deliberately used that word in my questions because it’s useful to struggle with the idea of what ‘will’ means. It’s highly important, if you want to help folks with hypnosis and NLP.

What if “against your will” means doing something you don’t want to do, you know is going to happen, but you do it anyway? If you don’t know it’s going to happen, it’s without your knowledge–not against your will. That’s a slippery slope.

Under this definition of the word will, you could hypnotize someone, have them shoot a random stranger and it wouldn’t be considered “against the will” of the person who was hypnotized.

Also, how do you define “knowledge?” Would you say the fellow in the Derren Brown video didn’t know he was giving away his wallet, watch etc.? I’d say he knew (although he may not have known he was hypnotized). Is it important when he acquired that knowledge?

When examined closely, words like “knowledge” and “will” are indefinable. In NLP terms they are what’s called nominalizations. Whether or not they are definable; they are very useful!

If a client comes to us for help in stopping biting their nails, what are they really asking? They know they want to stop, they know (sometimes) when they are about to bite their nails but they do it anyway! Are they doing something against their own will? Is that even possible?

I think it’s not quite that simple…

Human beings are not monolithic with only one motivation running at a time. They may have conflicting motivations–bite nails vs. don’t bite nails. Does that mean they have two wills about biting nails? If so, it means that we, as hypnotherapists, are attempting to get them to do something against their will (at least one of their “wills”) by helping them stop. How can we claim we can’t make someone do something against their will and then claim we can help them stop biting their nails? That is a fundamental question, to me.

How badly Do They Not Want To Do It?

1. Can a person be hypnotized against their will?
Yes
Comment: I’ve been taught that you can’t hypnotize anyone against their will, but after watching the videos, it appears that I was wrong. However, in the second video, the hypnotist asks a question and gets an affirmative reply, which could be taken as permission. I personally think that’s going way out there to get that interpretation. Interesting and food for thought.

2. Can a person be made to do something against their will in hypnosis?
No
Comment: There was nothing that threatened the man and woman, nor did it go against any moral codes. Perhaps not in their best interests.

3. What is shown in the videos is not hypnosis!
Agree (I believe this person misread the question)

My Response:

I’m happy to see many people question the definition of the word will. Sure, you can define “will” as different from “moral code,” “threat,” or “best interest.” But are we splitting hairs here? I think most of us would agree that we’d like not to be made to do things against our morals or against our best interests–we don’t want to have to do things we don’t want to do! That might be a slightly better wording of the question… “Can hypnosis make a person do something they don’t want to do?”

Many people seem to think “Yes, as long as it’s not something they really don’t want to do.”

Will vs. Imagination

1. Can a person be hypnotized against their will?
Yes

2. Can a person be made to do something against their will in hypnosis?
Yes
Comment: both questions one and two are subject to the law of the imagination, which states “when the WILL and the IMAGINATION come into conflict, it is the IMAGINATION that always wins. Will is not in the way if you enter from the imagination the mind is an open door to a dimly lit room with lots of files and push button controls, be careful what you do.

3. What is shown in the videos is not hypnosis!
Disagree
Comment: The marks mind focused on what the leader wants it to be and every thing else fades away….looks like hypnosis by the definitions I’ve seen.

My Response:

I’ve heard hypnosis instructors say the same thing about the will and the imagination. Hey, I understand they may be trying to make a point in a particular context–that of hypnotic suggestion. But let’s examine this statement more closely…

Does this mean that if we simply imagine something, it will automatically and always overcome even our strongest willpower? I don’t think so. Right now, I’m imagining that I’m going to pick up my boy in a couple of hours. I’m imagining giving him $600 and an ice cream sandwich…

…Now, I’ve decided to use my willpower to overcome that imagination. We’ll see which wins–will or imagination. (Update: he did not get $600 nor an ice cream sandwich)

Now, I do understand that the more vividly you create an imagination, the more emotion you put in to it, the more fully you step in to that scenario, the more powerful it can become as a suggestion. But did Derren Brown spend any time doing that? No. What “imagination” did Derren Brown elicit that made the man overcome his will and give him the wallet?

You’re Full Of Bull

1. Can a person be hypnotized against their will?
No

2. Can a person be made to do something against their will in hypnosis?
No

3. What is shown in the videos is not hypnosis!
Agree
Comment: these videos are complete BS, I mean look at them. Bandler visited this years ago, money and weapons work much better. These videos are so bad to the point that I’m going to unsubscribe from your list because I see that this is a poor marketing attempt by you. Cheers

My Response:

Huh?

About Bandler. If I recall, Bandler commented that in certain situations, it is easier to get people to do things by threatening them or giving them money than to try to force them via hypnosis. I agree. I am not seeking to learn the easiest or most effective way to make people do things they don’t want to do. I’m interested in understanding hypnosis more completely.

What I’m not interested in is accepting the party line (as one of my readers put it) about hypnosis–especially when it doesn’t make sense to me. Some folks have simply robotically repeated what they’ve been taught. Some even get very upset when you ask a simple question–is what we’ve been taught true?

As for me, I love exploring hypnosis and NLP. The kinds of things you and I have written about here are the kinds of things I think about. They are the subject of hundreds of hours of study, thought and late night conversations with my best friends. They are my passion.

I’ve decided it’s better for me to focus on what I’m passionate about. I’ll be writing more about pushing the limits–about what is possible, about what sacred cows about hypnosis we can disprove. For those who are interested, I am grateful for your participation.

If you don’t feel you can learn anything here, or contribute, feel free to move along. Good luck.

Keith

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