When is being “negative” a positive? How can an insult help someone out of a negative feeling? What is reframing and why is it so important in NLP? What would make Journey stop believin’? How can you use exaggeration as a therapeutic technique? How do you help people turn around beliefs that are getting in their way using patterns that they already have?
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How do we turn “weaknesses” into strengths? What is the secret question that helps us do that? How does the inability to accomplish something help us? How did a voice of doubt help one client overcome anger and how could the same process help you or your clients? What is reframing and why is it so important?
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Have you ever been in a group of people and someone from a ways away waved at you? Maybe you weren’t sure if they were waving at you or someone behind you but you didn’t recognize them. And as they came closer, you weren’t sure how to react. “Should I put on my, ‘Good to see you’ face or should I look like I don’t know them,” you might think. You’re confused.
Find out why that state of confusion is so valuable and why you’re going to want to create that confusion in others if you want to help them learn or change in…Continue reading
Frames can control what we feel, what we see and how we behave. Does that sound powerful? It is… Frames are how we look world. They are beliefs or constellation of beliefs which drive a perspective. We use our frames to make sense of and to navigate the world.
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There’s what happens to you, and then there’s how you feel about what happens to you. Is it “no big deal?” or “a bad day?” Bridget McKenna explains how to make the difference that makes a difference in how you think about life’s minor irritations in…Continue reading
Meaning and reframing meaning are valuable tools in helping ourselves and our clients reach their goals. Learn about meaning and what it means through the poem, “Meatballs”.
Meatballs are snow.
Spaghetti is rain.
All together they are thunder
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