Comments on: The Balance http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/hypnosis-tips/the-balance/ NLP & Hypnosis tools, tips, techniques, information, articles and videos. Wed, 25 Jan 2012 17:20:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Rob http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/hypnosis-tips/the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-4439 Rob Sun, 22 Jan 2012 07:49:07 +0000 http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/?p=429#comment-4439 Keith, I agree wholeheartedly, we can empathaise therby entering the clients world and build rapport but to go further is effectively allowing them to hypnotise us to the extent we are in the same boat as them. I think Steven Heller Phd said it better, "If the therapist accepts those statements (the clients) as being true in fact, then I believe that the therapist has experienced hypnotised by the client. Keith, I agree wholeheartedly, we can empathaise therby entering the clients world and build rapport but to go further is effectively allowing them to hypnotise us to the extent we are in the same boat as them. I think Steven Heller Phd said it better, “If the therapist accepts those statements (the clients) as being true in fact, then I believe that the therapist has experienced hypnotised by the client.

]]> By: Gill Lucas http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/hypnosis-tips/the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-3393 Gill Lucas Sun, 18 Jul 2010 09:54:30 +0000 http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/?p=429#comment-3393 I was taught to 'respect' the other person's view/model of the world, build raport but never to enter their world - to do so would be to allow them to hypnotise you. I was taught to ‘respect’ the other person’s view/model of the world, build raport but never to enter their world – to do so would be to allow them to hypnotise you.

]]> By: Rona hypnotherapy bucks http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/hypnosis-tips/the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-3197 Rona hypnotherapy bucks Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:22:25 +0000 http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/?p=429#comment-3197 Hypnotherapy should be a journey - I think it's right to start where a client is, but our task is to lead them to a different place - not to dwell too long in theirs Hypnotherapy should be a journey – I think it’s right to start where a client is, but our task is to lead them to a different place – not to dwell too long in theirs

]]> By: Doctor Regal http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/hypnosis-tips/the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-3195 Doctor Regal Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:11:46 +0000 http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/?p=429#comment-3195 Hello Keith, I pondered your concept and decided to share mine, although perhaps it may be slightly different than yours. I consider having rapport more akin to having a harmonious relationship. One does not necessarily have to give up his or her identity to share personal concerns, ideas or communicate feelings. Establishing rapport is primarily about developing a personal understanding, forging a relationship and bonding. In addition, I would like to say that I also appreciate how you have willingly shared much with the community and hope one day to see you at convention. All the best, Dr. Aleksonder Regal Hello Keith,

I pondered your concept and decided to share mine, although perhaps it may be slightly different than yours.

I consider having rapport more akin to having a harmonious relationship. One does not necessarily have to give up his or her identity to share personal concerns, ideas or communicate feelings. Establishing rapport is primarily about developing a personal understanding, forging a relationship and bonding.

In addition, I would like to say that I also appreciate how you have willingly shared much with the community and hope one day to see you at convention.

All the best,

Dr. Aleksonder Regal

]]> By: Sandy DeBoice http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/hypnosis-tips/the-balance/comment-page-1/#comment-3193 Sandy DeBoice Sat, 19 Sep 2009 13:04:00 +0000 http://www.hypnosis101.com/wordpress/?p=429#comment-3193 Hi Keith: That's so interesting that you site this case because I recently had a client with extremely acute anxiety which was crippling her life and yet she managed to 'cope' and hold down a responsible job etc. What you stated here is exactly what I pointed out to her in our 1st meeting - that she was extremely resourceful and powerful to be able to go through her day and not allow her anxiety to stop her. Thanks so much for these newsletters! Sandy DeBoice Hi Keith:

That’s so interesting that you site this case because I recently had a client with extremely acute anxiety which was crippling her life and yet she managed to ‘cope’ and hold down a responsible job etc. What you stated here is exactly what I pointed out to her in our 1st meeting – that she was extremely resourceful and powerful to be able to go through her day and not allow her anxiety to stop her.

Thanks so much for these newsletters!

Sandy DeBoice

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