We Get What We Want
Why do we do things we don’t ‘want’ to do? The answer, is in something we call secondary gain. And addressing secondary gain is paramount, if you want to change yourself — or help others change.
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NLP has a quick and simple pattern called a compulsion blowout. What does it do? Well, it blows out compulsions. It helps give people choice where they once felt compelled to do something. How much easier would it be to break that habit if the feeling of compulsion was gone? It doesn’t take long to learn and only a few minutes to do. Find out how in…
Anxiety Attacks
What can you do when you regress a client and it doesn’t work? How do you work with anxiety that’s hard to get rid of? What are common issues that get in the way of your client’s success and what can you do about them. Discover 4 approaches you can use with clients when it it doesn’t go like you expected, in…
Parts Or Secondary Gain?
Parts conflict and secondary gain. If you don’t take care of parts/secondary gain, chances are your fancy NLP technique or hypnosis session won’t work. So, what are parts conflict and secondary gain? Are they similar? Why are they important? What techniques do we have in NLP and hypnosis to deal with them? Why aren’t pre-written hypnotic scripts the best way to help people?
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